The Truly You Relational Experience
You're brilliant at life,
But your relationships tell
a different story.
A 9-month group experience for women who have everything - except the relationship they actually want
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For brilliant women in a relationship that could be doing better.
And independent singles craving a meaningful connection.
You've done the work on yourself. You understand your patterns.
Yet you find yourself still in the same place relationally.
This programme is built for YOU.
You're good at so many things. This one keeps humbling you.
You've figured out your career. Your finances. How to show up for everyone who needs you. You are, by most measures, a woman who has her life together.
And yet. Here you are.
In your relationship - or in the absence of one - something isn't working as well as it could be.
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You've been on your own for longer than you'd like. Not because you can't do life alone - you can, and you do. You just don't want to anymore. You want someone to come home to.
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You're in a relationship and you still love your person. But somewhere between the mortgage and the to-do list and the season you've been through, you stopped feeling like a team.
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You've had this same relationship before. Different person. Same ending. You're starting to wonder what you're missing.
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There are whole topics - money, desire, how you really feel - that you just don't go near. It's easier. Until it isn't.
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You know how to hold your position in an argument. What you've forgotten is how to fight for the relationship itself.
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You've done the therapy. Read the books. You understand your patterns. And yet here they are, again.
Smart women know that great relationships are at the heart of a truly great life - and they're willing to put the work into them.
But awareness isn't enough. Understanding yourself isn't the same as being able to change. That's what's been missing - and it's exactly what this programme is for.
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You've built a life most people would envy.
So why does this part feel so hard?
You're capable. Independent. You've had to be - life required it of you.
You know how to solve problems, hold things together, make things happen.
But the qualities that make you extraordinary at work? They can make intimacy harder.
The self-sufficiency that has served you well until now, has become a wall in your private life - preventing the connection you desire.
Maybe you've been on your own for longer than you'd like - and if you're honest, you don't want to be. You're more than capable of doing life alone. You just don't want to anymore.
Maybe you're in a relationship, and you still love your person - but the stress of life has crept in, and somewhere along the way you've stopped feeling like you're on the same team.
You've become good at fighting for your position. But you've lost the ability to fight for the relationship itself.
You avoid (or walk on eggshells) around the topics that matter most: money, desire, how you actually feel, and what you actually need.
You've read the books, tried the journalling - maybe you've been to therapy - but you haven't seen real change in this area of your life.
You've been trying to solve relational problems, without the relational tools.
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You've built a life most people would envy. So why does this part feel so hard?
You're capable. Independent. You've had to be - life required it of you. You know how to solve problems, hold things together, make things happen.
But the qualities that make you extraordinary at work? They can make intimacy harder. The self-sufficiency that carried you this far has quietly become a wall.
- Maybe you've been on your own for longer than you'd like - and if you're honest, you don't want to be. You're more than capable of doing life alone. You just don't want to anymore.
- Maybe you're in a relationship, and you still love your person - but the stress of life has crept in, and you've stopped feeling like you're on the same team.
- You keep finding yourself in the same dynamic, with different people. Different name. Same dance.
- You know how to fight for your position. But you've lost the ability to fight for the relationship itself.
- You walk on eggshells around the topics that matter most: money, desire, how you actually feel.
- You've done the therapy, read the books, tried the journalling - and the pattern is still repeating.
You're ready for change. And you've been ready for longer that you want to admit.
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Something in your relational life
isn't working. You already know it.
Maybe you've been on your own for longer than you'd like and you're wondering why the same patterns keep repeating.
Maybe you're in a relationship that is draining you and you're exhausted from carrying the weight of it alone.
You don't need me to tell you. You already know. You feel it in the distance that's crept in and in the conversation you keep putting off.
You give everything to everyone - and wonder why there's nothing left for you.
You walk on eggshells around the things that matter most: money, desire, how you actually feel.
You're lonely, even in a relationship. Or you keep finding yourself in the same dynamic with different people.
You've read the books, tried the therapy, done the journalling - and the same patterns keep playing out.
You're not ready to give up on your relationships. But you are ready to stop pretending everything is fine.
Every year you wait,
is a year you're paying for it anyway.
If you're single -
The cost is another year of returning to an empty home. Of doing things alone that you imagined sharing. Of watching other people build a life together and wondering, privately, what it is about you. The pattern doesn't soften with time. It just gets more ingrained.
If you're in a relationship -
The cost is another year of distance. Of eggshells. Of lying awake wondering if this is really it. Relational pain doesn't stay still. It compounds - taking your energy, your health, your confidence, your sense of self.
Either way, the cost is real -
And no woman should ever feel stuck in a relationship - or alone outside of one - because she didn't have the skills or the support to do something different.
80+ years of research into what truly makes a good life...
Harvard Study of Adult Development
One of the longest running studies of human happiness and wellbeing ever conducted found that...
The single greatest predictor of a long, healthy, happy life isn't wealth, success, or achievement.
IT'S THE QUALITY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Not how many. How good.
Here's who you
become on the
other side of this...
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You know what you want. You say what you mean. You stop disappearing in the process of loving people.
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You understand your patterns - where they came from, what they cost you - and you have the skills to choose differently when they show up.
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The conversations you've been avoiding? You have them. Not from anger or defensiveness. From clarity and love.
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Money stops being a source of tension. Intimacy stops being something you brace for. You can talk about both - openly, without shame.
05
You stop over-functioning. Stop shrinking. Start choosing yourself. And every relationship in your life gets better because of it.
This isn't a fantasy. It's what happens when a woman does this work with the right support around her.
Why this works when
the other things didn't.
5 Conditions for Lasting Change
You've probably tried to fix things on your own. Books, journaling, sheer willpower. And some of it helped - for a while. But lasting transformation in relationships requires more than good intentions. It requires five things that are almost impossible to create alone.
Someone who sees what you can't
Your patterns have been with you so long they feel like personality. A skilled guide reflects back what's invisible to you — the loops you can't see because you're inside them..
A method, not a mood board
Insight without a path forward just makes you more aware of being stuck. This programme gives you a proven framework - drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, somatic work, and financial psychology - that tells you exactly what to do next.
A space safe enough to be honest
You can't do this work at the surface. The container has to hold you at full depth - with confidentiality, zero judgement, and women who are doing the same thing. That's what this is.
Women who get it without explanation
There's something that happens when you're in a room with women who are working on the same thing. You stop feeling like the problem. You start feeling like the solution.
The Full Picture
Relationships aren't just emotional. They're physical and financial too. If you only work on one piece, the others drag you back. Transformation requires all three.
On your own, you might have one of these. Inside this programme, you have all five, simultaneously, over nine months.
Why this works when
the other things didn't.
5 Conditions for Lasting Change
You've probably tried to fix things on your own. Books, journaling, sheer willpower. And some of it helped - for a while. But lasting transformation in relationships requires more than good intentions. It requires five things that are almost impossible to create alone.
A Guide Who Sees What You Can't
Your patterns run deeper than you think. An expert coach reflects back what's invisible to you — the blind spots keeping you stuck in the same loops.
A Proven Path
Trial and error costs years. A structured method means you know exactly what to do next — not another book, not another guess, but a clear framework that works.
A Safe Space to Be Honest
Real transformation requires radical honesty. Not just with your partner — with yourself. And that requires a container of trust, confidentiality, and zero judgement.
Women Who Get It
You rise to the standard of the people around you. A cohort of women doing the same work normalises growth, holds you accountable, and reminds you you're not alone.
The Full Picture
Relationships aren't just emotional. They're physical and financial too. If you only work on one piece, the others pull you back. Transformation requires all three.
On your own, you might have one of these. Inside this programme, you have all five, simultaneously, over nine months.
Three Pillars.
One Complete Transformation
Most programmes focus on communication skills and call it done. This one goes deeper - across the three dimensions where real relationships are built and broken.
Led by Lisa Hopper, PCC
Pillar 1: Relational Architecture
Who are you in relationship?
See your patterns clearly, understand why they made perfect sense once, and break their recurrence.
Build the emotional regulation to respond rather than react
Express your needs and your boundaries - from love, not fear or control
Stop fighting for your position. Start fighting for the relationship.
Lower the wall. Let love in. Without losing yourself.
Led by Guest Expert Sex Therapist
Pillar 2: Somatic Sovereignty
The part people feel awkward to talk about
Reclaim your body and feel safe being fully seen by another person
Talk about sex and desire honestly, without shame creeping in
Address mismatches without it becoming a fight or a silence
Navigate intimacy through the seasons of life - illness, transition, change and those other tough moments.
Understand infidelity - the why, the prevention, and the repair.
Led by Guest Expert Wealth Psychologist
Pillar 3: Financial Intimacy
No woman should ever stay - or feel trapped - because of money.
Talk about money without blame, shame or shutting down
Understand where your money beliefs came from - and whether they're still true
Build financial clarity so you always have options
Move from protecting yourself to building something together
Make money a place of connection rather than conflict or power dynamics
Nine months. Built to hold you
Each phase builds on the last. You're supported throughout with live sessions, expert-led modules, and a private community of women doing the work right alongside you.
Months 1-3 Foundation
Relational Architecture
Uncover your patterns, find your voice, and build the inner architecture for a new way of relating. This is where the real work begins.
Months 4–6: Deepening
Somatic Sovereignty
Reconnect with your body, reclaim intimacy, and bring physical connection back to life. We go where most programmes won't.
Months 7–9: Integration
Financial Intimacy
Align on money, build true partnership, and step into your relationship as the woman you've become. This is where everything comes together.
Nine months. Built to hold you
Each phase builds on the last. You're supported throughout with; live sessions, expert-led modules, a private membership area, a curated list of resources and relational tools, and a community of amazing women doing the work right alongside you.
Pillar 1: Relational Architecture
We uncover the patterns and coping strategies you've been carrying - often since childhood - and start to loosen their grip. Not through willpower. Through understanding where they came from and discovering you're completely capable of choosing differently now.
This is where the woman who's been fiercely independent finds out she can keep that strength - and still let someone in.
Pillar 2: Somatic Sovereignty
Intimacy doesn't fail in a single moment. It erodes - quietly, over time, in silence. This pillar breaks that silence. A specialist sex therapist helps you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your right to feel good in your own skin. We go where most programmes wont.
Pillar 3: Financial Intimacy
Money arguments are never really about money. They're about power, safety, and what we believe we deserve. A wealth psychologist helps you understand your own financial story - and gives you the literacy and confidence to always have a choice.
Nine months. Built to hold you
Each phase builds on the last. You're supported throughout with; live sessions, expert-led modules, a private membership area, a curated list of resources and relational tools, and a community of amazing women doing the work right alongside you.
Pillar 1: Relational Architecture
Who are you in relationship?
This is the foundation everything else is built on. Uncover the patterns you've been repeating - and discover who you get to be when you're no longer running them on autopilot.
Pillar 2: Somatic Sovereignty
Remove the taboo and the awkward around intimacy. Reconnect with your body, your desire, and your right to feel good in your own skin. We go where most programmes wont.
Pillar 3: Financial Intimacy
Money arguments are often not about money - yet this is one of the most common sources of relationship conflict. This pillar brings it into the open.
What's Included
Client Praise
"I was working until 1am, putting everyone else's needs before my own. I had completely lost sight of what I actually wanted. Now I have tremendous clarity about what I want and who I am. The growth has been in every single aspect of my life - my relationship with myself, my family, my work, my finances, everything."
"I have achieved more in the last 6 months working with Lisa than I have in the last five years. I have been focussing every day on what really matters, I have forged ahead and built what I always wanted but never believed I could have."
"I've become a different person. Half way through this programme I found myself in a new challenge in life and the way I held myself through that has been a big reflection of the experience I've had in this programme."
""I've learned to let things go. And to be bolder, to own my value. I have so much more confidence now. What we have created in this programme is amazing."
"Crazy powerful."
— JC, Therapist & Copywriter
Is This For You?
This is for you if:
✦ You're single and ready to break the cycle before you repeat it - not because you need to be in a relationship, but because you want to be, and you're tired of the same story.
✦ You're in a relationship, you still love your person, and you know it could be better. You're willing to start with yourself.
✦ You're capable and independent - and you're starting to wonder whether that independence has become a barrier to letting someone really in.
✦ You've tried other things and they've helped a little, but the deeper patterns keep coming back.
✦ You want to feel different - not just know different. Real transformation, not another coping strategy.
✦ You're willing to be honest, show up, and do the work - even when it's uncomfortable.
✦ You know you deserve a relationship that you can feel fully yourself in
This is not for you if:
✦ You're looking for someone to fix your partner. This work starts - and stays - with you.
✦ You want a quick fix. Nine months is a commitment because real change takes time.
✦ You're not willing to be honest with yourself. This programme is built on radical honesty - we can't do the work if you won't go there.
✦ You're in a situation involving active abuse or serious safety concerns. In that case, Please seek specialist support first. I'm happy to help you find the right direction.
"Every month that passes without real change is another month of living beneath what's possible for you."
Is This For You?
This is for you if:
You're a woman who knows something needs to change in your relational life - and you're willing to start with yourself.
You've tried other things and they've helped a bit, but the deeper patterns keep repeating.
You want real transformation, not just coping strategies. You want to feel different - not just know different.
You're willing to be honest, to show up, and to do the work - even when it's uncomfortable.
You believe you deserve a relationship that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
You're ready to stop waiting and start investing in yourself.
This programme is not for you if:
You're looking for someone to fix your partner. This work starts - and stays - with you.
You want a quick fix. Nine months is a commitment because real change takes time.
You're not willing to be honest with yourself. This programme is built on radical honesty - we can't do the work if you won't go there.
You're in a situation involving active abuse or serious safety concerns. In that case, I'd encourage you to seek specialist support first, and I'm happy to help point you in the right direction.
"Every month that passes without real change is another month of living beneath what's possible for you."
LISA HOPPER
YOUR GUIDE. PCC ACCREDITED COACH, AUTHOR
I kept seeing the same woman. Smart. Successful. Capable of almost anything. And quietly struggling in the part of life that mattered most to her.
She'd done the work. She understood herself. She just couldn't seem to change the pattern. And she was doing all of it alone.
I created this programme for her. Because I believe life is better shared - not just managed alongside someone, but genuinely, joyfully shared. And I know that getting there takes more than self-awareness. It takes real relational skill, a safe space to practise it, and people around you who understand.
I've spent nine years and over six figures building that understanding - training with the best coaches and therapists in the world, investing in my own growth the way most people invest in their careers. I paid $10,000 for a single 2-hour session with Steve Hardison. I've trained with Terry Real, Byron Katie, Erickson International, and the Co-Active Institute. I hold a PCC accreditation from the ICF.
I don't teach theory. I teach what I've lived, what I've tested, and what I've watched change the lives of women like you - who walked in carrying exactly what you're carrying now.
Best Selling Author. PCC Accredited coach, International Coaching Federation · CTI Co-Active Coach Training · Erickson International · Terry Real, Relational Life Therapy · Alexandra Solomon, Relationship Training · Byron Katie School of The Work · Three Principles Practitioner · NLP Practitioner Certified · COSCA Counselling Certificate · Invested over £100,000 in personal coaching and development · Featured in USA Today & CEO Weekly
"Great relationships don't happen to you.
They happen because of who you become."
LISA HOPPER
YOUR GUIDE. PCC ACCREDITED COACH, AUTHOR
I've spent 9 years and over six figures investing in my own growth - hiring coaches, mentors, and training with the best in the world.
I paid £10,000 for a 2-hour coaching session with Steve Hardison. I've trained in Co-Active Coaching, NLP, The Three Principles, The Work of Byron Katie, and Relational Life Therapy with Terry Real. I hold a PCC accreditation from the International Coaching Federation.
I don't teach theory. I teach what I've lived, what I've invested in, and what I've seen transform the lives of the women I work with.
This programme exists because I believe every woman deserves a relationship that she can be fully herself in. And because I think life is better when it is shared with great people. Creating memories, creating moments and creating shared experiences.
There is an art and a science to relationship health. How we think about ourselves and other shapes our behaviours, but that self-awareness alone is not enough. We need to be taught the relational skills too.
Great relationships don't happen by accident - they take insight, skill, and the courage to show up differently.
Best Selling Author. PCC Accredited coach, International Coaching Federation · CTI Co-Active Coach Training · Erickson International · Terry Real, Relational Life Therapy · Alexandra Solomon, Relationship Training · Byron Katie School of The Work · Three Principles Practitioner · NLP Practitioner Certified · COSCA Counselling Certificate · Invested over £100,000 in personal coaching and development · Featured in USA Today & CEO Weekly
The questions you're probably sitting with
"This sounds amazing, but I can't afford £6000."
I understand - this is a real investment. Consider what you're already paying for things to stay as they are: the emotional cost, the impact on your health, the toll on your confidence and your family. The average UK divorce costs over £14,000 in legal fees alone. Loneliness is linked to an increased risk of a stroke and heart disease, and has been found comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day! This programme is an investment in preventing that future and building the one you actually want. We also offer payment plan options to make it more accessible.
"I need to think about it."
Of course. And I'd encourage you to think about what you're really weighing up. This isn't about making a hasty decision but I've never had a client say they wished they'd waited to start. Apply now and we'll have a conversation. There's no commitment until you decide.
"I need to ask my partner first."
Of course - it's great you communicate about decisions. I recommend you get clear on why you want to take part, and why now - then share your reasons from a connection to that vision. Many women find that once they explain what the programme involves and why it matters to them, their partners are supportive. I'm happy to answer your partners questions too, if they want a short call to put their mind at rest.
"I don't have time."
This is three sessions a month. If you have time to lie awake at 2am going over the same thing - and I suspect you do - you have time for this. The busiest women I know are often the ones who need it most. Busyness is sometimes just another way of not having to sit with what's not working. The real question isn't whether you have time. It's whether you're willing to prioritise your relational life.
"Maybe next time — I'll join a future cohort."
I hear this often. But here's what I've noticed: "next time" usually means "I'm not quite ready to choose myself yet." The truth is, there will never be a perfect time. Your relationship won't pause while you wait. And the women who are in the programme right now were once in exactly the same position you're in - wondering whether it was the right moment. They'll all tell you: the right moment was when they said yes.
"I don't know if I'll commit to 9 months."
Nine months is a real commitment - and that's deliberate. Real transformation doesn't happen in a weekend workshop. The structure is designed to give you enough time to uncover your patterns, practise new ways of being, and integrate lasting change. You won't be doing this alone - the cohort, the community, and the live sessions are designed to carry you through the moments where you might otherwise stop.
"I don't know if it will work for me."
I understand that fear. You've probably tried things before that helped for a while and then faded. This programme is different because it doesn't just address one dimension - it covers the relational, the physical, and the financial. It gives you a proven framework, expert guidance across all three pillars, and a community of women doing the same work. The testimonials above are from real clients who had the same doubts before working with me.
And, I'll hand your question back to you. Because it will be down to you to implement what you learn. You have your part to play here.
"What if my partner isn't willing to do any work?"
This programme is for you - not your partner. That's not a limitation. It's the point. When you change how you show up, what you say, how you hold yourself, what you're willing to accept - the dynamic changes. You can't control another person. But you can change the dance and that can change the relationship from the inside out. Many women in my programmes have partners who aren't involved at all - and still saw profound shifts.
“Lisa - You’re not currently in a relationship. Why should I trust you with mine?”
Because relationship status isn’t the same as relational skill. Plenty of people are partnered and deeply unhappy. Transformation doesn’t come from proximity to a partner - it comes from understanding patterns, boundaries, communication, and choice.
I’ve experienced long-term relationships, endings, complex partnerships, and the real internal work required to grow from them. That lived understanding, combined with years guiding clients through their own dynamics, is what shapes this programme. Where specialist expertise matters - intimacy and financial dynamics - I bring in dedicated experts rather than pretending to be everything myself.
If you’re looking for someone who simply has a relationship, that’s easy to find. If you’re looking for someone who can help you change the one you’re in, that’s what this programme is designed to do.
I'm single - is this really for me?
Yes. Waiting until you're in a romantic relationship to improve your relational skills is like waiting until the Olympics, before you start your training for it. This is powerful work to do now. The patterns that show up in your relationships don't disappear when a relationship ends - they follow you into the next one. If you keep attracting the same dynamic, ending up in the same place, or holding yourself back from love because of what happened before, this programme will show you exactly why - and give you the tools to break the cycle.
You didn't read this far by accident.
Something brought you here. Maybe it was a quiet feeling that's been building for a while. Maybe it was something someone else said, or didn't say. Whatever it was - you're here. And some part of you already knows what you want to do.
The cohort is small. Places are limited. Every application is read personally by me. If it feels like a fit, we'll talk - just the two of us, no pressure, no pitch.
Ready to improve your relational life?
Takes 10–15 minutes to apply. Lisa will be in touch within 48 hours. 12 places only.
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